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Susan @ Between Naps on the Porch and
Rhoda @ Southern Hospitality for hosting these fun and educational blog parties each week
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My Aunt gave me one of Ms O's (oprah) favorite candles for my birthday so ...
I needed a candle holder for our bedroom

I visited my favorite thrift shop and found this ordinary wooden holder for 50 cents
These candle holders are quite abundant in my neck of the woods... as I am sure they are in yours
I sprayed the holder with black paint and when that was dry I sprayed it in spots with mahogany paint

To match these chargers over our bed

I took gold plastic chargers that I got for 50 cents each and sprayed them black and then mahogany after the black was dry
I then stenciled our initials in light green and placed them over the bed
I used tacky glue to attach the ribbon to the back to hang
In the summer I keep the bed & bedroom very light.. just 2 comforters and a lightweight quilt
I have 9 pillows on the bed in this picture but since then I bought 2 more pillows
We both LOVE pillows and can't get enough of them... 11 pillows, all are used.
I only buy washable pillows!
We are not fancy so why should our pillows be?
I am a firm believer in not having things ONLY for good...
we deserve good too, all the time & not just saved for the company!
I am having an issue with this wall... hubs dresser is on this wall and I have space for stuff on the wall
My idea is to wake up to things that bring me joy... the hub loves the clock so it has to stay
Not necessarily where it is now though... I am not sure this is all even proper feng shui!
He has to at least have some say though.. not much .. some!
Anyway right now I have our wedding invite framed with another charger plate that I freehand painted words that describe our relationship
LOVE CALM PATIENCE FAITH RESPECT
I think I either need more things or less things... I am not sure!
I do know that I don't like the layout anymore but I still want to keep it simple
oh and I did have another picture there to balance the grouping but I took it down because it was just not ... it
Even though I have no clue what it is...!!!
Any ideas?
Thanks so much for stopping by... you are welcome anytime!